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Post by Wes Gear on Oct 7, 2009 19:46:49 GMT 10
since you've posted on many threads i needed one place to address everything..........
lucid you need to make a choice. no one is running you off........and no one wants to ban you..........but you need to figure out if you want to be here or not.
i'm going on record as saying i personally do not want to see you leave. you have been a supporter of the site since you got here....everytime i needed your help you did not hesitate
what i can't do is offer an apology.......at best i see the events as two wrongs don't make a right............we both broke even. i'm not asking for an apology and neither should you. we should be moving on.
i hope you can agree with this........
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Post by concrete on Oct 7, 2009 22:48:04 GMT 10
Drex. I know it's not my buisness. But,
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Post by realorfake on Oct 7, 2009 23:45:12 GMT 10
Lucid, I read through the thread here (the thank you thread to aardvarks/slith) where things got heated between Drex and you...
I understand your grief about posting pm's in public threads but I'm pretty sure Drex heard you the first time, if not the 2nd. I know we all did. Regardless, you kept bringing it up. Even when the thread seemed to move to a more positive area, you would again mention it. I think I read Drex say "drop it" like 7 times, about the same number of times you brought it up. I'm not chastising you, but since this has gone public I feel I can relay my opinion.
I believe the resounding idea and one thing everyone here must stick by is that we're a family, and families do fight. (i know Drex said it but its really nothing but the truth)
Nobody wants to see you leave Lucid. You're a staple here, and one of the only women we have. Reconsider the notion of leaving, please.
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Post by dlslith on Oct 8, 2009 7:53:36 GMT 10
Gang, (hehe) I just wanted you to know Lucid got a hold of me and let me know she would be back in a couple of days. She just needs some downtime. So no worries, she'll be back and as good if not better than ever. And Drex, I believe, she agrees with you. She just needs to step away from the situation and re-access what went down and sort things out. She was pretty emotional. She wears her heart on her sleeve. As do we all. She sees great things in store for OCB and wants to be a part of it. Sometimes you have to take one step back to move two ahead. I think she made the right choice and support her for this. Peace, Slith
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Post by Aardvaaks on Oct 8, 2009 8:26:52 GMT 10
I think you have summed up the situation right on the button Slith. Thanks for keeping us all up to date.
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Post by blacky on Oct 8, 2009 8:29:57 GMT 10
sooner you come back lucid the better!!! ;D
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Post by dlslith on Oct 8, 2009 8:40:14 GMT 10
She is a tremendously valued member on here, and I respect her needing the time away. Thanks Aard, much appreciated. Agreed Blacky, but just as Brill did, and I imagine you and I might do the same at some point. Sometimes we need to step away for a little bit to let things settle.
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Post by Wes Gear on Oct 8, 2009 8:41:36 GMT 10
thanks for the update slith.
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Post by dlslith on Oct 8, 2009 8:48:22 GMT 10
thanks for the update slith. No sweat Drex. And just for the record, I will back all on here to the end. I think you know this
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Post by brillbilly on Oct 8, 2009 8:55:52 GMT 10
we all need to remember that things said on words on a post sometimes will be taken the wrong way.i had time out coz of negitivities.i needed to get my head straight and to think straight.i just hope that the wires that have been crossed can be uncrossed.we all need each other if we want this site to evolve.all need to just stand back and see how quik this site is expanding,day by day,page by page.its here for the making or the breaking.All take a breather and reflect that this is sapposed to be a haven away from the DTV bitching.we are better than that.it takes two to fight and if one makes a choice to take a breather then the air can be cleared.both are in the wrong and both are in the right but all of us are in the middle.peace please
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